There is no love which does not become help.
I'm so happy I discovered this words today that I'm barely breathing! I have a person who loves me and he triggers so many things in me. I feel angry and frustrated and I go to my therapist and talk and heal and talk and heal more. And what he does meantime? Pretty much nothing. Just being himself and gives me the space to heal without the need to change him to become less of him to fit into my world. And I know that if I get triggered - it's in me, my emotions are my and only my responsibility and no matter how hard it really is I work on them and I heal. When you are in any kind of relationship other people will trigger you. Always. And you can always learn and heal more and then you don't get angry and feel love instead of fear or discomfort and I'd give everything for it ❤️